Never in any relationship I have been in or will someday be in, do I ever want to be “the other woman”. Yeah, it sucks sometimes not getting what I want. But I also don’t want karma to come around and bite me in the ass. I don’t know why I feel bad for the other people involved… but I do so that sucks.
It’s super easy: leave me alone- don’t try and kiss me, cuddle me, blah blah blah until you figure out what you want.
Honestly, either way I don’t care. I’ll find my own happiness, I’m a big girl with many opportunities waiting for me. I don’t even know where I will be in my life a year from today, so there is that…..